Dec 21, 2016

My precious dates

5 October 2014
Pertama kali bertentang mata.

No dating-dating yet. Jumpa kat rumah parents je. Hoho. My first impressions about him? Quite good looking, tinggi, cerah, tak kurus tak gemuk which memang taste aku. Gatal.

We had a funny deal before we met. Andai salah seorang tak berkenan antara satu sama lain - then it's over. Har har har. Dan tak sampai 5  minit after they left our house, i received a message. It's from him! Well, i guess that's a greenlight for us?

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30 November 2014
Aku dirisik tanpa tahu aku bakal dirisik?

Time ni tengah cuti study week. Tiba-tiba si dia minta aku bersiap dan pakai baju kurung. Pelik tapi ikutkan je. Dia pun tak pernah tengok aku pakai baju kurung. Hoho. Tak lama lepastu tiba rombongan 2 buah kereta berserta dulang dan hamper bagai. Terlopong aku terkejut! Terkedu! Ah, rupanya mama pun sama berpakat! Nakal!

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17 January 2015
Alhamdulillah selamat jadi tunangan orang.

We got engaged in less than 3 months after our first met. Pantas betul masa! After had a family meeting, we decided to get married right before my internship got started which was a year after the engagement.

Aku rasa tak perlu cakap pasal dugaan masa bertunang ni. Memang banyak hasutan dan setan. Jiwa, hati dan mental ni kena yakin, teguh dan percaya andai Allah uji kita maknanya kita insan terpilih.


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15 January 2016 
A night before our first night lol

It's my 21st birthday! K i felt old already at this time because i was the first one in my friends' circle who knocked the marriage door! It was simple and a bit messy i could say. Maybe sebab nervous besok nak nikah. And maybe sebab kepala runsing hantaran belum siap. A bunch of thanks to my uni friends, my life saviors who came all the way from Johor sanggup bersengkang mata teman sampai 3-4 pagi tolong kemaskan inai dan siapkan hantaran! Paling takkan lupa!

My favorite fake flowers hiks 

Beautiful henna touch by my lovely Cikgu muah love you!

Simple yet cute dais from Shasha Gallery i love it!

   
 Aw they are the cutest, hugsss!

 
My beautiful black girlfriends!

   
And this happened a week before my wedding! Naughty girlfriends! Same prank but different year was it? Before bertunang last year pun dapat suprise macam ni! Now tell me how can i not love you guys this strong!

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16 January 2016
After a year being called fiance to this man.

Dengan sekali lafaz, alhamdulillah aku sah jadi kekasih halal buat suamiku. Macam-macam aku rasa. Sedih sebab tak sangka dah jadi bini orang. Gembira sebab mama dan ayah senyum meleret. Hoho

(plays Judika - Sampai Kau Jadi Milikku song)





I have always love candid photos! Thanks Megat for make it real!

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Majlis sanding
The wedding of 2 young couples

Since this was the wedding between 2 couples, me and my eldest brother, we planned to have 2 sessions of persandingan. Along took the morning session after my nikah, while i took the evening session which was after zohor.

Everyone dreams to have such a perfect wedding day but a dream is still a dream. At first it clearly was my fault who decided not to have any pengapit since i want to jaga hati all of my bestfriends because they are so many! NOT HAVING PENGAPIT DURING YOUR WEDDING DAY IS TOTALLY A DISASTER OK.

Next, prepare a to-do-list for your dulang girls so that they know what to do and what to help during the event. Brief them in details what do you want and such. So that everything will go smoothly. And no stress! They would feel appreciated.

And oh, kejadian tumit kasut tinggi tercabut paling tak boleh lupa! Hahaha terima kasih pada yang sanggup pergi cari tukang kasut kat bandar sedangkan majlis masih berjalan. YA ALLAH I am blessed to be surrounded by these kind-hearted people! You guys are the best! Thank you so much for your stay and loves!


Not-so-well-prepared-pengapit hoho but still beautiful!


 Sampai sekarang aku masih tak jumpa manusia mana yang sanggup buang nama pada kek aku ni. Aku berdendam ni.


 Meet my mother in law hoho

Our new big family yay!

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6 February 2016
Majlis bertandang

Everything was just fine EXCEPT the wedding photos and also the photographer. The real photographer didn't show up during the event but he promised to have another outdoor shoot again the next day, so i'm okay. (BUT up until today, a promise is just a promise)

Our photobook album for the reception turned out really buruk and got wrong date! Samping pengantin terselak. Pengantin tengah bersin. Gambar family hampir semua blur. I was shocked to see what given in the softcopy. Most of the gambar weren't our gambar as we were the pengantin, tapi banyak gambar awek. WHAT THE HELL.

I did complain this to the real photographer. He didn't say much but he promised to replace the album. I agreed. As long as i get back what i should get. And guess what? The second album was exactly same like the previous one. Only the date has changed into right date. DUDE I'M CURSING AGAIN RIGHT NOW.

Well, to be honest, me and my whole family personally don't think that 'professional photographer' title suit you, since you always bring it up here and there. You should inform us earlier if you can't make it. You should ask us, both of us because we pay you LIKE A LOT. K.

Ok dah lega. Aku tak berdendam. Cuma agak terkilan. Here you go, a few gambar terpaksa dijadikan gambar kegemaran since i have no more choice hohoho



 Pelamin was totally a mess as the weather wasn't good that day :(
So was i :(



I guess that's all for this entry. Sedih kan? Takpa. Janji suami sayang. Hiks

I'm sorry on behalf of my family because we didn't manage to invite all of you. It was our first kenduri in family so forgive us my dear friends, my schoolmates, old jiran AND ALL. InsyaAllah we will meet again for the next kenduri!

Dec 20, 2016

My precious moments

Masih ingat satu persatu. Yang aku pasti takkan lupa.

Ceritanya aku dan husband tak pernah kenal tak pernah jumpa pun sebelum ni. Siapa sangka perkenalan yang singkat boleh bawa ke jinjang pelamin? Hiks

It all happened like two years ago. End of 2014 and I was 19 back then, tengah struggle nak habiskan diploma. Arwah abah dan umi, his parents merangkap kawan lama ayah singgah rumah malam tu. Kisah yang tak berapa nak manis buat aku sebab aku selekeh gila hantar air masa tu. Kau bayang t-shirt besar, seluar tidur comot dan tudung indon aku sarung? Sampai sekarang aku masih tak boleh nak brain macam mana umi boleh terpikat dengan 'keayuan' aku malam tu. Hahaha

Well, jangan salah faham. Kami kahwin bukan atas percaturan keluarga, mahupun desakan keluarga. Cuma kami kenal melalui keluarga. Yang lain usaha sendiri lah. Siapa yang nak kahwin kan?

Mulanya dia add Facebook. Aku approve terus aku dm. Gatal. Tapi dia tak reply. Langsung. Time ni rasa macam nak tepek bedak sejuk tebal-tebal kat muka! Bukan hampa, tapi malu! Haruuu. Tak lama lepastu dia Whatsapp personal. Lega!

Lagi 5 hari

Dia dah botak.
Tapi tetap aku sayang.
Aku janji sampai syurga.